Sunday, April 6, 2008

Christian ways to reduce stress

i found this email recently from my aunt, which i think it is good to share...

CHRISTIAN WAYS TO REDUCE STRESS ...

An Angel says, 'Never borrow from the future. If you worry about what may happen tomorrow and it doesn't happen, you have worried in vain. Even if it does happen, you have to worry twice.'

1. Pray

2. Go to bed on time.

3. Get up on time so you can start the day unrushed.

4. Say No to projects that won't fit into your time schedule, or that will compromise your mental health.

5. Delegate tasks to capable others.

6. Simplify and un-clutter your life.

7. Less is more. (Although one is often not enough, two are often too many.)

8. Allow extra time to do things and to get to places.

9. Pace yourself. Spread out big changes and difficult projects over time; don't lump the hard things all together.

10. Take one day at a time.

11. Separate worries from concerns . If a situation is a concern, find out what God would have you do and let go of the anxiety . If you can't do anything about a situation, forget it.

12. Live within your budget; don't use credit cards for ordinary purchases.

13. Have backups; an extra car key in your wallet, an extra house key buried in the garden, extra stamps, etc.

14. K.M.S. (Keep Mouth Shut). This single piece of advice can prevent an enormous amount of trouble.

15. Do something for the Kid in You everyday.

16. Carry a Bible with you to read while waiting in line.

17. Get enough rest.

18. Eat right.

19 Get organized so everything has its place.

20. Listen to a tape while driving that can help improve your quality of life.

21. Write down thoughts and inspirations.

22. Every day, find time to be alone.

23. Having problems? Talk to God on the spot. Try to nip small problems in the bud. Don't wait until it's time to go to bed to try and pray.

24. Make friends with Godly people.

25. Keep a folder of favorite scriptures on hand.

26. Remember that the shortest bridge between despair and hope is often a good 'Thank you Jesus.'

27. Laugh.

28. Laugh some more!

29. Take your work seriously, but not yourself at all.

30. Develop a forgiving attitude (most people are doing the best they can).

31. Be kind to unkind people (they probably need it the most).

32. Sit on your ego.

33 Talk less; listen more.

34. Slow down.

35. Remind yourself that you are not the general manager of the universe.

36 . Every night before bed, think of one thing you're grateful for that you've never been grateful for before. GOD HAS A WAY OF TURNING THINGS AROUND FOR YOU.

Hope the tips helps...it does for me...

My Final year project...PSM2

Well, this is the first time i m writing out my thoughts and mind in a blog..i wonder how it feels like when someone u don't even know read what u are doing and thinking...but on the other hand, i really enjoy reading people's blog, i get to know lots of stuff and its as if reading a real life story books..i will start to write about my PSM 2 (known as final year project). i m doing a computational study on structural behavior on timber-concrete composite beam ( i m currently a civil engineering student)..well, what i can tell is so far so good, i just recently finish writing my thesis and handed in to my supervisor to mark..i just hope and pray that there wont be lots of mistakes for me to edit later..*cross fingers*..now i m doing my seminar paper and i need to take a break, so i m writing this blog..just to release all the tension....Due to this project, i cant remember how many times i suffered headache..and sometimes i really felt like giving up especially during the modeling time. imagine, i had to study a software that i never even heard of and i need to use that software for modeling and analysis...thinking of it really gives me a headache. However, i really thank God that He really guide and send *angles* to help me with the modeling and now i had come out with the modeling and analysis..all my prayers were answered!!! thank God..here are some part of the analysis taken..


vector display



von mises stress contour




There are still a lot to be done...seminar paper, poster..thesis binding..and lots more...i just hope that i can finish everything in time...*cross fingers*...

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